One part of puberty that teenagers don't like is acne. It
is a normal part of growing up caused by your changing
hormones. For some girls, acne may be mild, but for others
it may get pretty bad. Using nonprescription medicine is OK
if your acne is mild, but if it seems to be more serious,
see your doctor. A doctor can give you stronger medicine to
help the problem.
What are the emotional changes of puberty?
Puberty and adolescence is a complex time. As you go
through the physical changes of puberty you start to
experience a wide range of feelings. You are trying to
figure out your place in the world. You become more
independent and start doing things without your parents.
You may be influenced by your friends' ideas and feel
pressure to do things that you may not agree with, like
using drugs or alcohol. It is a time to start sorting out
your values and decide what is right and wrong.
As part of this, you may start to have strong sexual urges.
You may develop a romantic attraction to someone and begin
dating. You may feel like you are in love one day and not
the next. It is natural to have changing feelings. You may
also decide to become intimate with others. Intimacy can
include many things. You can be intimate holding hands,
hugging, or kissing.
When you become a teenager, you may also start thinking
about having sex. Take time to think through your decision
before you have sex. You need to think about the physical
and emotional risks you will be taking. If you decide to
have sex (intercourse) or oral sex (kissing a partner's
genitals) it is important to be able to talk with your
partner about what you are doing and the risks involved.
Sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy may be a
consequence of having sex. The only way to prevent
pregnancy 100% of the time is to not have sex. You need to
decide what you are comfortable doing and be safe.
If you decide to have sex, talk to your health care provider
and begin taking a hormonal type of birth control (such as,
the pill, the patch, or Depo-Provera) before you have sex
for the first time. You also need to use condoms to prevent
sexually transmitted infections.
Talking to Parents
Sometimes during puberty, teenagers may feel distanced from
their parents. Parents may feel the same way and may be
uncomfortable talking with their teenager about intimate
issues. You need to understand that your culture, music,
and clothing styles are different than what your parents are
used to. Your parents may not feel in touch with your
world, but they really want to understand what you are going
through. Try to let them into your life and explain to them
what you like and don't like. Be open when they make an
effort to talk with you about personal things such as sex,
drugs, and friendships. It can be just as hard for parents
to discuss these topics as it is for you. If you feel like
your parents are not meeting your needs, talk to them about
it and ask them if you can spend time together. Deep down,
they truly want the best for you. Parents are ultimately
your best resource and strongest support. Give them a
chance!
This handout is only a brief introduction to puberty. There
are much more detailed books and pamphlets available to help
you understand both the physical and emotional changes you
may be going through. You are encouraged to find out as
much as possible. Read books, talk to parents, friends, and
teachers, or check the World-Wide Web to find resources to
help you figure out this dynamic time of your life.


Disclaimer: This content is reviewed periodically and is subject to
change as new health information becomes available. The
information provided is intended to be informative and educational and is not a
replacement for professional medical evaluation, advice, diagnosis or
treatment by a healthcare professional.
HIA File CHL3758F.HTM Release 9.0/2006. Copyright © 2006 McKesson Corporation and/or one of its subdiaries. All Rights Reserved.
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